[Mailman-Users] 2 problems i cannot resolve

[Mervyn Kahn]

I have searched all the FAQ and cannot find answers to resolve my problem:
Requesting assistance with the following:
1)     How do I set up mailman so that the recipients email address appears
in the To section
And not my address which I an using to trigger the sending of the mailer?
2)     I would prefer that the from section does not contain all the extra
information how do I clean this up?
 Eg this appears Such as epasella-bounce at gmail.com on behalf of ******
 
Assistance in helping me resolve this issue would be appreciated.
 
Thank you.  Mervyn Kahn